Some of us have lived where homeless gathered and dealt with the drug and mental issues as well as the theft, and human feces smeared on stuff as retribution for not assisting their needs.
We have a huge homeless issue, and should be compassionate, if we spent half the money towards homeless care that we spend on sports authority, we could solve the problem. But, the more we support and comfort directly without using the proper mechanisms for support, the more we assist with some if the issues that brought them to where they currently are.
Some avoid shelters due to the rules of conduct. I understand some just don't want to ask for help.