@hutch5801 : I've thought of not much more and you are right, we are an awesome community of good people. The sadness of loss hits us all with children. If we search our hearts, we know that by the Grace of God it didn't happen to ours but it could have. No one can/should sit in judgement and I know that if my Goddaughter or son had chosen to get in a car with someone drinking they would have played a part in choosing the danger. None of this is good but it is what kids do testing adulthood. I pray for each family and the kids that knew each one that while the loss is tremendous, they can get through with help from God and their friends, family and community. One step at a time...