I would not be judging the person's qualities , I think tattoos are plain gross & I would not give the person enough time in front of me to even learn about their qualities . Not trying to be ugly I am telling the truth & their are others that feel the same & just won't come out & say it .A young man that works at Kroger that was doing the big holes through his ears found out what I was telling him was true . He created the huge holes & then he could not get a job .I'm sure some of you know who I'm talking about . At any rate he had surgery to go back to normal earlobes .