@nikkiole : As Christians, it is our responsibility to debate scripture and bring false teaching to light. This is biblical, and I am sure you know that. Debate, even vigorous debate, is certainly appropriate.
I think the problem with this, as most any subject...is when it is done in a chat room format like this, people read attitudes into words that are not actual, they think past what was written, to think of the next retort. It is generally what causes me to stay out of most threads, unless I am in the mood.
