I shouldn't share - but - these are the things kids remember.
@redneck roy:
Hey RR,
Feelings are not right and wrong they are just feelings. The same goes for memories. In order to heal one must trust and invest the time it takes to break the cycle.
I for one, don't believe the scenario such as if raised by an alcoholic then will be an alcoholic , if molested will be a molester, if raised by drugs then will be a druggie and so on.
I believe in the POWER of God and GRACE!
In my own healing process, I had to learn to forgive my aggressor in order to heal. I hated him every day I hated him. I was a real pistol in my 20s full of hate seeking revenge. I didn't know it then but I know it now the only person I was hurting was ME there WOULD BE NO revenge just forgiveness in order for me to survive.
In life, we don't plan our journey but we are obligated to participate in it. It is the people that dig deep and find their inner peace that survive. I know!
Again, much love sent to you and again thank you for sharing. Sharing enables others to see they are not alone and will survive. You know, I decided a long time ago I didn't just want to survive I wanted to LIVE!
Be Blessed!