Bottom line HumbleGirl
You hit the nail on the head, when people ask a question they get an answer.-This is how it should be.
You are neighbors- This is how it should be.
Your board is probably decent and reasonable, you are fortunate,imagine if it was not.
You do not have police at your meetings and are not informed that if you ask too many questions you will be removed by force if necessary.
If your board was like ours you would have the same issues.
Are we not allowed to use this public forum to air our grievances?