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Question Advice Needed: How do you tell her she's getting fat?

Question Advice Needed: How do you tell her she's getting fat?

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by: Thatguywhodraws Active Indicator LED Icon 1 OP 
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 3:29pm  
Advice Needed: How do you tell her she's getting fat?
 
Here's an interesting dilemma of mine to get you through the day 🤣
 
This pandemic is bad because everybody's sitting in the house and probably eating from boredom. My SO was already starting to put on pounds before. Id ask her if she ever wanted to come work out with me (i work out pretty often and she always asks me to let her into my world) But she says "itll just make me feel fat" She has a very low self-esteem and ive watched her lash out because i nonchalantly and unconsciously said "thats a big piece of pizza".... I meant nothing by it. It actually was a big piece of pizza. Even for Shaquille O'Neal. Lately ive noticed shes been wearing less of her tight clothes and when wed go out (pre pandemic) shed take a lot longer because shed feel self conscious in everything so shed come out dressed like a nun.
 
This pandemic is making me prepare for the inevitable. Im willing to work with her i really am! But she doesn't want to. I really dont want to hurt her feelings. But i dont want to lose my attraction to her. Im gonna have to pop "the other" question: do you think you're putting on a few pounds? 😔
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doridori Active Indicator LED Icon  New Member
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 3:37pm  
Say you need to start running and ask her to join you.
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M1cha3lo0o Active Indicator LED Icon 6
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 3:40pm  
No matter anyway I have ever tried to mention to a female they are putting on weight it has gone horribly ( daughter, spouse, GF, random friend ).
Now males it has been fine.
 
"Hey Fred put down that extra chicken wing, ya growing ******"
 
It has always been when they finally click the switch in their own head and then you can help them.
 
Which sucks because stopping it from happening is way easy from fixing it after it has already happened.
 
Good luck....
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MrsT Active Indicator LED Icon 8
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 3:41pm  
You don't.
 
You're welcome
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brightlights Active Indicator LED Icon 15 Forum Moderator
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 3:42pm  
Im willing to work with her i really am!... But i dont want to lose my attraction to her.
 
@Thatguywhodraws : I agree that she should start running. In the opposite direction from you. 🤣
 
Wow.
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lynnsgirl Active Indicator LED Icon 12
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:02pm  
Mind you own **** business and let her be!
 
Love her and support her or leave her be!!
 
Trust this.. someone else will win that prize!
 
Look in the mirror today if you need to fix anything start with yourself !!!!!!
 
You damn sure don't deserve her!
 
FACT
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bbk Active Indicator LED Icon 11
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:02pm  
@brightlights : exactly my thoughts .
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Sammee Active Indicator LED Icon 11
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:04pm  
Go ahead and just be honest with her. Her putzometer will direct her about what to do next. Emoticon
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ginx Active Indicator LED Icon 11
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:05pm  
maybe she's preggers
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~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:08pm  
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MooMaw Active Indicator LED Icon 12
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:16pm  
Really?
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Floyd Active Indicator LED Icon 9
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:21pm  
Where's that "Homer sinking into the bushes" GIF when we need it?
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MrsHB Active Indicator LED Icon
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:46pm  
Seems like you have a death wish!!!
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~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:47pm  
Thatguywhodraws : I agree that she should start running. In the opposite direction from you. 🤣 Wow.
 
@brightlights :
 
Love it!!!! 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
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brightlights Active Indicator LED Icon 15 Forum Moderator
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:47pm  
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@Floyd :
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brightlights Active Indicator LED Icon 15 Forum Moderator
~ 3 years, 11 mos ago   Apr 28, '20 4:49pm  
@Thatguywhodraws gone be all...
 
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